The Girl in the window

Every morning a girl looks out in her window to see the blue sky and the birds flying in the sky with the clouds above it. She is a lovely girl, her parents love her so much since she is their only child.

One day, while she was looking out of her window, she saw this young man, a very good looking man, "How charming" she told herself then sigh. From then on she always make it a point to look out of her window every morning hoping that she will again see the guy that she saw. She succeeded on seeing him again and feels so happy every time he sees him.

One day, the young man noticed her, he looked at her and gave her a smile, she smiles back at him and felt a butterfly in her stomach a feeling of excitement and happiness.

Another day came and the young man always gazed at her window with the same hope like her that he can also see her and probably get a chance to talk to her even for a while.

They finally, they got a chance to talk and know each other. He introduced himself to the girl and told him his name is Henry and he is just new in town. The girl also did the same and told him her name is Genevere.

Henry always visits her whenever there is a chance and they became friends. They always chat and laugh with each other, they are lovely to look at.

Then years came by, both had grown up, a pretty lady and very good looking man. They manage to keep their friendship for years.

Their friendship turned into love, a love that grew out of friendship. They fell in-love and were both happy with each others company. 

Another year had passed, Henry proposed to marry her and she was so nervous and her heart beats so fast, she felt tears flowing in her eyes, tears of joy and happiness when she said yes.

Then, the time has come that they have been waiting for, the day when they will start living together as one. Everybody is excited like she is. A mixed feeling of joy, excitement and nervousness. She wondered what Henry is doing right now if he also feels the same feeling that she is experiencing, She smiled to herself while thinking about him.

When she's done putting on her make-up, it is now time to wear the last wedding gown that she's going to wear, She looks elegant and so beautiful with her long white gown. Everyone looked at her like they never saw her before, she really looked stunning.

She went straight to her bridal car with her parents, She really looks happy and her heart was pounding  while on her way to the church.

Henry was standing in front of the altar awaiting her beautiful bride with excitement. "What a beautiful bride she must be" he thought with a smile. Still standing in front of the altar waiting patiently, when finally there she was standing on the doorway, smiling back at him.

The organ started to play as she begun to walk down the isle, her tears started to flow in her rosy white chicks while looking at him. When she reached the altar, he took her hand and gave her a kiss, they were so happy that even words are not enough to describe their feelings. The ceremony started finally, they looked at each other while the priest is giving his blessings. They promised and vowed that they will cherish and  love each other till they get old. Henry told her that he feels so lucky to have her as his wife and wanted to spend the rest of his life with her for as long as he lives. She on the other hand while Henry is expressing his love for her, just kept on crying because of the over whelming emotion of happiness. After the ceremony, he kissed her passionately on her lips as if no one can see them, like they're in a different world. Everyone in the church celebrated with their joyous moment.

After the wedding, they went straight to their hotel, "Alone at last" they thought,then laughed with each other, they start kissing passionately and endlessly, Henry kept on whispering in her ears how beautiful and lovely she is and how he loved her so much that he will stay with her, to love and protect her from any harm. She told him that she is also thankful and happy to have him as her husband and promised to stay beside him and be with him for the rest of her life.

They kissed ones again endlessly and that night was filled with their love and passion with each other.

Insensitive

How can some people be so insensitive that they do not care that you are hurting. You tried your best not to think anything negative towards that person and be strong enough to handle anything, but we are only human that no matter how hard we tried not to think about it we still get hurt.

We are hurting because of other peoples doings and as much as we don't want to, still we can't help it and cry, and wished that these things never happened.

Why are some people are so insensitive, when they already knew that what they are doing is hurting you, but then, they still doesn't care about your feelings.

Do they really love you? Is that the kind of love that you deserve? Nobody should be treated that way, everyone in this world or each and every person has the right to be treated fairly and not to be treated like they are nothing of value.

We all deserve to be happy and not to be hurt by other people even if we love that person so much. It doesn't give them any right to treat us that way.

Those people who are so insensitive, thought that just because you don't say anything doesn't mean that all is well for you.

I hate insensitive people, they are so numb and careless towards other peoples feelings. People like them should learn that being insensitive doesn't really do any good because they don't know that they are already hurting someone but then they still continue doing the thing that make that person hurt.

For those people who are insensitive, this I will tell you, Stop being insensitive and start caring for other peoples feelings and stop being so selfish, they might grew tired of you and you will be left with nothing but yourself, ALONE.

Love

Why do we love? we loved so we can also be loved. but what is really the exact meaning of the word love? It is hard to define the meaning of it. Some would say that love is a self giving without asking anything in return, some say, love has no boundaries, loving is a self sacrifice for someone you love. 

Every time we give love to a person, we also get hurt. We get hurt not because we love that person but what that person is doing. We love that person so much that we sometimes forget that we also should leave something for ourselves.

It is good to love but loving that person too much is not exactly the right thing to do. Giving too much love can also be harmful because when we get disappointed it gives us so much pain, so much pain that we sometimes cannot handle.

Learn to love yourself, loving a person doesn't mean that we should let our lives evolved to that person alone, we should also think that we also have our own life to live and that includes loving and respecting ourselves.

Some people doesn't take seriously the love that we are giving them they just took it forgranted. They are so numb towards our feelings that we also get hurt. They think that because we love them so much they already have the right to hurt us. 

We should learn from our mistakes not to give love to much specially to a person who care less to our feelings and give love to those people who loves us the most and will not hurt us in anyway.

Remember that to love and to be loved is a very nice thing to do but it doesn't necessarily mean that we should let them hurt us or to be treated the way they are treating us, not caring with our feelings and all they care about is their own happiness, but we shouldn't also expect that they can return the love that we are giving them because true love doesn't ask anything in return. 

Stupid Love

I don't understand why I keep on loving you, though you keep on hurting me I'm still  here loving you. I sometimes wonder if you really love me or just pretending.

Every time you hurt me I kept on telling to myself that it is enough, but instead of hating you I tend to forgive you and love you even more.

My mind tells me not to love you but my heart is telling me that I can't let you go. Sometimes I wish I can be somewhere where nobody can hurt me the way you are hurting me.

If we go on separate ways that doesn't mean that I love you less because for as long as my heart still beating it will never stop loving you, my heart beats for you and it will only stop beating until the day when you stop loving me.

But how can I go far away from you when all I can do is to love and think about you every now and then. To stop loving you is like a punishment because loving you makes me happy. I know you cannot return the love that I am giving you, but that will not change the love that I have for you. 

I do not know what kind of love  I have for you because of the pain that you are causing me, still I am here, hoping that one day I will not be hurt by you.Sometimes I want to forget you and pretend that you never happened but I know deep inside my heart that it is hard for me to do.

I love you like there is no tomorrow and  I miss you like I always do.

Missing You

Everytime I miss you, time seems so slow.         

All I did is to think of you.

Sometimes I feel that the world has stopped everytime I'm missing you coz nothing goes on in my mind except the happy moments that we shared together and hoping that you also remembered it the same way that I do.

I sometimes look at the stars at night but all I can see is an empty sky, no stars shining and it's all because of you coz I miss you so much and wish that we are together now.

I am longing for your kiss, a kiss that says that you love me, a hug that says that you need me and a call from you that says you miss me too, hearing your voice seems you are just beside me and loving me.

When I miss you, I just think about you and look deeply into my heart because I know that it is where I can find you.

We sometimes dream that we are together and never wanted to wake up because in our dreams there are no boundaries between us and can be with each other and do all things together and can never be apart.

My heart is hurting every time I'm missing you, but that hurt turned into joy when I hear you say that you miss me too.

Loving you is an easy thing but missing you is the hardest thing to do.

You will always be in my heart and will stay there as long as I live.

True love

 NotoriousCherryBomb

John and Rebecca are lovely couples, everybody looked up to them because people always see them happy and you will never hear them quarreling, what a perfect couple they thought.

Rebecca is so sweet with John she always wanted to be with John everywhere he goes whenever it is possible. Rebecca love John so much, too much that she sometimes forget that she also have her own life to live, her world revolves around him, maybe we could say that she is so in-love with him.

John is a very busy person but he also tried to spend time with Rebecca as much as he could.

John never forget to call Rebecca when she asked him to call her whenever he has time and sending her messages as well.

Johns job requires him to travel all the time and whenever he needs to travel abroad Rebecca were left alone and that makes her sad.

When she loves someone she make sure that they  communicate whenever he's on a trip. She always missed him everytime everytime he's not around, she missed his voice and become sad.

One day, John called her and she was so happy, she missed him so much that she wished that she can talk to him endlessly, but John needs to hang up and so Rebecca became sad and asked him if he can extend his call just for a few minutes. John became angry with Rebecca and yelled at her, she was caught unaware that he is going to do that, because she just thought that she is just asking for another few minutes of his time since he is so busy and she is missing him so much. So after the yelling, all Rebecca can say to him was ok and  that it's ok to hang up. After the call, she cried and cried and felt really hurt of what he did, she never thought that he will be mad at her by just asking him for a few minutes of his time.

John realized what he did and so he keeps on sending her, messages, but Rebecca didn't reply to any of his messages because she was hurt.

But Rebecca loves him so much that even though she thought of not talking to him for days and even  to keep her distance from him, she can't do any of it, he loves him so much that she cannot bare not talking to him even for a few days.

John never stopped sending her message of apologies, but this time she replied to his messages and told him what she feels, that she was hurt by his action and had been crying a lot. Jonh kept on apologizing to her though she already told him that it was ok.

Rebecca really missed him so much that she couldn't bare not talking to him, she forgave John for what he did and hope that everything will turned out right.

Not everybody knows that shes been hurt by John many times before but her love for him is stronger that even he keeps on hurting her every now and then she still loves him even more each day and never stop thinking about him. John  made a promised that he will not hurt her ever again and Rebecca is holding on with his promises. In all fairness with John he tried his best not to hurt her but being human he sometimes forget what he had promised, but it is not a good reason I could say.

John came back from his trip and gave Rebecca a big hug and a lot of kisses. She is so happy seeing him and to be with him again. John was also happy to see her and be with her, he also loves her so much it is just that his temper is so short that he sometimes lost it. But Rebecca as understanding as she is though sometimes he thought that she doesn't understand him at times but in reality she's been trying to understand him ever since.

She loves John so much than she loves herself, she forgotten that she must also learn to love, respect and leave something for herself  first.

Well that is love, giving everything that we can give to the ones we loved, just like what Rebecca did she loved John and gave everything to him without hesitations and doubt, She loved him and accept what he is whole heartedly. 

She and John finally got married and they were so happy and Rebecca , happy being married to John thought to herself that no matter what she will love him and will stay with him till they get older. 

True love can overcome anything as long as you hold on into it... Loving someone is not all happiness there will also be a lot of hurt and sadness, but it also gives us the kind of happiness that no material things can ever give and thus also includes acceptance, accepting the shortcomings of the ones we loved. Love also give us the opportunity to love and to be loved.

Love conquers everything, despite and in spite of.

Trust and The Great Pretender .... .

Trust ....

Trust is what we give to someone that we know that we can really be trusted.  There are certain moments in our life that trust is called for. 

Trust is hard to be earned. We must know how to trust so other people will also trust us in return.

But, we should  also learn how and when we should give our trust and to whom.

Remember that there are people who are being nice to you but at the back of their minds they have different intentions and it's already too late when you find out their true colors.

Some people befriended you just because they want to get something out of you. They are just pretending to be your friend and be nice, "what a great pretender".

There are people who are good at pretending, pretending whom they're really not.

We should always remember that there is a saying, trust only people whom you really can trust, and beware to those people who smiles at you and became so friendly because you never know what they are thinking about you or what they are capable of.

Trusting people is a nice thing, But we should also remember that giving trust so easily can be harmful to us, and we should take precautions specially to those people whom we just met.